Asako Hirase wrote:In this, he was something of an expert, having gone through the experience once before. Relaxing and reaching to pat the horse gently again, he explained, "Yes, indeed. It usually starts when ones parents, or Lord, if the parents are either active elsewhere or have passed on, contacts a nakodo. They give them your salient information...bloodlines, occupation, talents, challenges, and so on. The nakodo often meets with clients to assess for herself their qualities as well. Then the nakodo looks through their clientele and sets up pairings that might suit the needs of the time, be it political or simply a need to breed up a characteristic or two. If you are lucky, you may meet your spouse before the betrothal and have a chance to say no, but that's not always the case."
Remembering his own union, he offered, "In my case, my wife and I were paired for a certain willingness to learn new things. We were stationed very near the northern border right after marriage and the Clan didn't want to send any anyone unsuited for it, even a spouse. I met her at the ceremony. Still, it worked out well enough. We built a friendship in the short time we had and that was more than enough to consider the nakodo's work a success."
Yue nodded along with the discussion, her grip on the reins loosening. Fortunately for both of them, Hikazume did not show any aggression to the man.
"I cannot imagine such an arrangement," she concluded at the end of it. She was unsure of how else to put it. The woman paused and then continued in Yobanjin, "
Ah, I am very sorry to hear for your loss. I cannot imagine that it was easy." She then gave the man another deep bow.
Afterward, she perked a brow, her horse picking up on it and turning to her. "
Oh don't fret, it's okay you worrywart." She did not ask the question on her mind, however.
To ask him if he is ready for a new marriage would be quite rude, wouldn't it?
Unicorn - Bushi - Horrible Burns - Missing Left Arm - Damaged Eye - Rather Tall - Unfamiliar (Gaijin) Name - Dauntless
Status 1.0 - Glory 2.0 / Infamy 0.2 - Honour: Untrustworthy - Courtship: 5
Languages: Mekhem, Yobanjin
Typically Carries: Sturdy Clothing, Daisho, Fan, Small Hand Mirror, Finger of Jade, Coin Purse, Small Knife, Medicine Kit, Sake Cup
Riding Horse: Hikazume, Puppy: Gon