Hideo knew Amaya would be upset; to have kin die at a miai at all things would be hard to deal with after all those who had died just getting to Rokugan. He could understand that, a miai was a time for beginnings, not endings. It wasn't the way he'd prefer his evenings with the girl to go, but he walked her back to her yurt in polite silence.
As they reached her yurt, he turned to her and said quietly "I can allow you time to contemplate the day if you wish?" allowing her to send him away if she wanted - even if he hoped she wouldn't.